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Re: The Tender Mercies/Answered Prayers Thread
« Reply #15 on: February 03, 2018, 09:53:12 am »
I'm glad you had a positive experience, Cook.

About your negative experience--I don't know why we do that to each other in our church callings.  Callings are volunteer positions.  It's one thing to accept suggestions from a leader about how to improve.  It's quite a different thing to hear someone complain and criticize, even when you're trying to serve them. I've become less tolerant with that kind of nonsense. "If you're going to complain about what I'm doing, then maybe you should volunteer..." I said that once when I taught early morning seminary.
 When they realized that getting up at 4:30 every morning to prepare lessons for their child is something they don't want to do themselves, they stopped complaining.
 
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Re: The Tender Mercies/Answered Prayers Thread
« Reply #16 on: February 03, 2018, 02:24:27 pm »
Roper, your comment reminded me of a quote from Elder Holland:

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So be kind regarding human frailty—your own as well as that of those who serve with you in a Church led by volunteer, mortal men and women. Except in the case of His only perfect Begotten Son, imperfect people are all God has ever had to work with. That must be terribly frustrating to Him, but He deals with it. So should we. And when you see imperfection, remember that the limitation is not in the divinity of the work. As one gifted writer has suggested, when the infinite fulness is poured forth, it is not the oil’s fault if there is some loss because finite vessels can’t quite contain it all. Those finite vessels include you and me, so be patient and kind and forgiving.

(Italics added by me.)
 
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Re: The Tender Mercies/Answered Prayers Thread
« Reply #17 on: February 17, 2018, 06:06:42 pm »
So far the first group I wanted to work with no longer has a position available, so I am now awaiting word from the second group. I was last in contact with them in December. They may end up being a better fit, as I won't lose many of the skills I have been working on in the other group.

In other news our baby boy came 3 weeks early. I think he wanted to beef up for the exodus west.
 
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